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I write about Personal Development / Emotional Intelligence / Leadership / Transformative Thinking / Innovative Approaches / Intellectual Integrity / Innovation / Empowerment / Organizational Transformation

Insights Newsletter No. 186

INSIGHTS Newsletter No. 186 Good morning. You don't need a new identity. You need permission to outgrow the old one. This Week's Deep Dives Articles DEEP DIVES ARTICLE — EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE The Empathy Illusion: Why Feeling “Nice” Isn’t the Same as Being Emotionally Intelligent This is a sneak peek of this week’s Deep Dives article — published today! We’ve been taught to equate empathy with goodness — but what if that belief is quietly undermining leadership, accountability, and real...

Insights Newsletter No. 185

INSIGHTS Newsletter No. 185 Good morning. What you resist, persists. This Week's Deep Dives Articles DEEP DIVES ARTICLE — EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE Emotional Boundaries: The Skill Most People Learn 20 Years Too Late This is a sneak peek of this week’s Deep Dives article — published today! Most burnout isn’t caused by workload — it’s caused by emotional leakage. In this piece, we unpack why so many capable, empathetic, high-performing people end up exhausted, resentful, and quietly overwhelmed —...

Insights Newsletter No. 184

INSIGHTS Newsletter No. 184 Good morning. Never under-estimate the power of the Law of Attraction. This Week's Deep Dives Articles DEEP DIVES ARTICLE — EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE How to Handle Emotionally Immature Adults Without Losing Your Sanity This is a sneak peek of this week’s Deep Dives article — published today! Some adults never learned to regulate themselves — and if you're grounded, dealing with them creates soul-drain exhaustion. This Deep Dive offers practical strategies: stop...

Insights Newsletter No. 183

INSIGHTS Newsletter No. 183 Good morning. A new year doesn't change you — what you do differently does. This Week's Deep Dives Articles DEEP DIVES ARTICLE — EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE Emotional Minimalism: Simplifying the Way You Feel Without Going Numb This is a sneak peek of this week’s Deep Dives article — published today! We live in an age of emotional overload — where every feeling is analyzed, amplified, and carried far longer than it needs to be. Emotional Minimalism challenges the...

Insights Newsletter No. 182

INSIGHTS Newsletter No. 182 Good morning. The strongest people aren't those who carry everything — they're those who know when to set it down. This Week's Deep Dives Articles DEEP DIVES ARTICLE — EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE The Empathy Burnout Epidemic: How to Care Without Collapsing This is a sneak peek of this week’s Deep Dives article — published today! If you’re the person everyone leans on — the listener, the stabilizer, the emotional anchor — there’s a good chance you’re quietly carrying...

Insights Newsletter No. 175

INSIGHTS Newsletter No. 175 Good morning. Great leaders don't need the spotlight to cast a shadow. They build empires in the background while others chase the throne. This Week's Deep Dives Articles DEEP DIVES ARTICLE — EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE The Fine Line: How to Show Emotional Intelligence at Work Without Crossing Personal Boundaries This is a sneak peek of this week’s Deep Dives article — published today! Emotional intelligence has become the new currency of leadership — but even empathy...

Insights Newsletter No. 174

INSIGHTS Newsletter No. 174 "Leadership is not about being in charge. It's about taking care of those in your charge." — Simon Sinek This Week's Deep Dives Articles DEEP DIVES ARTICLE — EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE Hire for EQ, Not Just IQ: Why Emotional Intelligence Beats Raw Smarts in Business Development This is a sneak peek of this week’s Deep Dives article — published today! In today’s relationship-driven economy, the smartest person in the room rarely wins — the most emotionally intelligent...
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Insights Newsletter No. 171

INSIGHTS Newsletter No. 171 Good morning. If you fish in a catfish pond, you’re going to catch catfish! This Week's Deep Dives Articles DEEP DIVES ARTICLE — EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE Can EI Be Taught? This is a sneak peek of this week’s Deep Dives article — published today! Most people assume emotional intelligence is something you’re either born with or not. But groundbreaking research in neuroscience, psychology, and leadership development says otherwise. The ability to understand, regulate,...
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Insights Newsletter No. 169

INSIGHTS Newsletter No. 169 Good morning. Listen to your team, otherwise you will soon be surrounded by people who choose not to speak. This Week's Deep Dives Articles DEEP DIVES ARTICLE — EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE Empathy & Systems — They’re Not Mutually Exclusive This is a sneak peek of this week’s Deep Dives article — published today! Think empathy slows execution? Think again. This piece shows how to turn care into an operating advantage — decision logs, capacity redlines, “rude process”...

Newsletter No. 165

INSIGHTS Newsletter No. 165 Good morning. The 10 most important words in the English language: ‘If it is to be, it is up to me.’ This Week's Deep Dives Articles DEEP DIVES ARTICLE — EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE EQ Isn’t “Soft”—It’s Strategic This is a sneak peek of this week’s Deep Dives article — published today! Become a Deep Dives Member to get access to the full article. In a world racing toward automation, emotional intelligence — not technical skills — will set leaders apart. Despite being...

I write about Personal Development / Emotional Intelligence / Leadership / Transformative Thinking / Innovative Approaches / Intellectual Integrity / Innovation / Empowerment / Organizational Transformation